By ForeZorba; Published in HEALTH VISION MAGAZINE- Oct 2014
Empowerment through motivational talk does not imply eradication of all psychological and interpersonal problems. And they need some person intensive solution for their individual problem, which seems and are unique for them. Most of the counsellors who follow easy money fewer involvement rules rather provide a quick-fix speech after listening to the problem of individual; through which clients develop the internal, interpersonal and social resources to cope more effectively with the present circumstances and situations.
Ideally, a suitable counseling process equips people with tools and experiences that help them improve specific aspects of their lives. Reinstating self-worth feeling through a deeper belief in their capacity from the core is not just superficial convincing but its conviction. A person who is smashed from inside needs a work frame which cannot just help them but make them to buck up and develop a knack to mend his rapture part for coming up with strong personality with enhancing potentiality to tackle the problems to come on their own.
In this regard Mantra with Zorba has made this process of counseling alive for the people at a grass root. Unlike others, we have not created havoc but gently brought it in our counseling process. Many of our clients who required intensive counseling have experienced the sessions of Psychodynamic counseling and 6 out of 7 seven have reaped benefits as desired and required.
Psychodynamic counseling, an extension of psychological counseling under which a dynamism is brought into the process and with the contemplative application or adaptation by the counselor of analytic ideas and techniques to assist the individual in acquiring increased insight on the subject. Insight into subject or problem is must as unconscious representations govern thinking, behavior, growth and intervenes in the perception of everyday life. The course of change starts as individual become more aware of the power of the unconscious, including defence mechanisms, instincts and rules for life, to influence behavior, and hence more able to control their actions and responses.
Our approach for Psychological Counseling falls into three general categories:
Behavioral counseling work with conscious processes and focus on cognitions and behavior. Here the counselor encourages the individual to reason out with them in order that the individual can experience for themselves the effect of logic upon their arbitrary inferences and distorted cognitions. The aim is to improve and alter their negative self-concepts and world views. It’s often effective at depression of any kind and mood disorder and for development.
Humanistic counseling seeks to empower the client through self-actualization – working with the ‘here and now’. The whole process is very intellectually satisfying, flexible and widely applicable to almost all problems. The aim is to help individual come to terms with themselves and life with all its paradoxes and complications.
Psychoanalysis draws heavily on the aspect or element constituting personality. This is a form of counseling aimed at providing the client insight into his or her unconscious motivations and impulses. Usually, these unconscious or hidden beings get projected by the way of act, communication verbal or non-verbal through symbols. People form perception in the stages of development and certain kind of drives, defence mechanism and personality get created. This reflects in their representations of self, while in talk, they hold certain things. Deliberately holding back real personality where normal conversation would suggest something else. Such withholding seems to give rise to negative feelings within the individual. Hence encouragement is given to individual to say whatever comes into their head even if it seems meaningless. The process may help you with a wide variety of emotional difficulties as well as for development.
Psychodynamic Counselling may help you with a wide variety of emotional difficulties, some examples are listed below:-
* Bereavement and Loss
* Stress at work
* Your relationships
* Mid-life crisis
* Panic attacks and phobias
* Anger and rage
* Sexuality issues
* Living with a life threatening illness
* HIV / AIDS
* Unemployment, redundancy, retirement
* Lack of confidence or self esteem
* Sexual, emotional or physical abuse
* Emotional or physical exhaustion as a care taker
* Trauma, including Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
* Difficulty in accessing emotions
In the approach of behavioral counseling, the results can be easily measured and is highly adaptable as well as time-efficient but relatively superficial as it does not address unseen, hurt or hidden hurts. Whereas, in existential or humanistic approach, it’s relatively easy to comprehend and make use of it, and benefits can be long lasting but not always. And the approach of psychoanalysis is painstaking and sensitive with great expense of time and effort, resulting with a continuously improved personality as this approach is capable of working its way to the bedrock of the person’s disturbed development projecting in easy to see a problem.
The sessions of psychodynamic counseling works like a mirror of your thought process where you can see the way your problem has approached you in minute way. How your thought has gripped you so that you landed in this trouble and here the process believes that every person at the core is a good person. So after seeing your own thought pattern you devise your own strategy to cope with with that. Here counselor just plays a role of facilitator between you and your thought awareness rather bombarding you with all kinds of suggestion. This real skill of counselor develops a skill in you, which certainly lasts longer.
Therefore, the advices that we offer to you is that if this type of counseling appeals to you, then find out a bit more, and give it a go. There are a lot of people that are glad they did. However, be prepared to be open and honest, and be prepared to find the going difficult, especially at first. Even, if it doesn’t seem appealing now, you may find some way down the line that you would like to say it is of worth.